I have a query I need help with. So I feel sexual attraction, however I really would prefer a relationship that is just as close as a sexual relationship, but not really with sex? Basically what I'm trying to say is that I would have to be in a relationship with someone for a long ass time to then be okay with doing anything too sexual. I don't ( Read more... )

Hi, everyone! :)

Some of you might know me as the founder/manager of Club-of-Aces, the main asexuality-based group on deviantART. I'm posting today because of an issue brought to my attention by one of our Spanish group members, GoblinPrincess. It's an issue that I hadn't really thought about before, and I think it's something important for us to ( Read more... )

I pay for 20 voice posts a month so damn it, I'm going to make them!

That was sort of what was on my mind when I started rambling about asexuality into my phone tonight, and these are the end results: 3 5 podcast-y voice posts, rambling on about asexuality, the definition thereof, my own expansion on that, grey-A's/demisexuals, and why we talk ( Read more... )

This started as a response to someone asking about asexuality (and - more specifically - what it means to be asexual) but since it pretty thoroughly sums up my feelings on the matter, I figured that I might as well post it again here, where it's a little more visible. I am by no means the sole authority on asexuality and sexual orientation, but I ( Read more... )